In this time of continuous change and the pressure to do everything so much more quickly than before, we sometimes find ourselves feeling guilty that we are not keeping in touch with our friends and acquaintances as much as we would like. I then thought of my friends and realised lifetime friends are few and far between. Friends are important and can be there for life, for some years, or just a few months.
Most friendships or as I prefer to refer to them ‘special acquaintances’ are formed because there is a bond that allows you to be either a teacher or a student; a supporter or to be supported; or simply just to learn more about yourself because the friend is a mirror for you. As the need to learn from this person decreases, you will discover you have less and less in common and then the need for each other diminishes also. There is nothing wrong with short term friendships.
When it is time to break off regular contact with a friend, do it with joy and be thankful for all the good things you have shared. Try to avoid feeling guilty because you have not seen someone in a long time. Everything has a beginning, a middle and an end – even friendships and acquaintances.
Remember real friendships of long standing are those that change as the events of life and living also change. There may be times you do not understand each other, but then - there you are again, totally enjoying each other’s company. A test of friendship is the feeling of pleasure you have when together. There is none of the "oh, I wish I hadn't got to go!" reaction. The most important test of a true friend is when you have not seen them for a long time, and as you meet, it is as though you had seen them only yesterday.
Now is the time to quietly, quickly and joyfully give thanks for friends and acquaintances without whom we would not be what we are now.
When the sperm and the egg of your biological parents fuse to form the cell reproduction that
will eventually produce your human body, this first cell combines the memories contained in
the cell of your father through his sperm and your mother through her egg. Every new cell
that is created continues to encompass the memories of your biological parents.
After 3-5 months when your soul enters the human frame you become a whole human being, Prior
to your soul entering the foetus the memories of your biological parents are what you
Once born your emotions and thoughts may object to the behaviour of your parents/carers but
your ability to explain what or why you do not agree, is impossible as you have no
communication skills other than to cry or thrash about. In the end you become conditioned
to being untruthful in order for your young life to be easier. This means you are forming
conditioned behaviour patterns for yourself.
At some point you realise you can, or should be in control of your own life and not
automatically respond to the programming you have undergone during your early
The next step is to connect with your soul and your soul's past so any karma you may have
brought with you is cleared. Unfortunately, even with no karma, repeat behaviour patterns
continue through the memories in your cells, which often reduces your self-confidence and
belief in your abilities.
Clearing the ADVERSE memories
When you reach this point, it frequently brings about frustration. You find you are
questioning yourself without realising that the ADVERSE inherited memories from your
biological parents need to be cleared but only the adverse ones as it is essential to keep
all the beneficial ones. Clearing just your DNA is helpful but is only provisional as it
links to the reactions you have experienced in this lifetime. For it to be permanent, it
is important to find the source of the memory that has been persistently causing concern or
blocking your way forward. Memories that you can observe have had a repeat pattern with one
or other of your bloodlines
To go back to source cannot be done with the head sadly, nor can it be achieved just because
it feels a good thing to do, it must be FOR THE RIGHT REASON. EXECUTED ACCORDING TO THE
COSMIC LAWS AND BE AT THE RIGHT TIME.